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		<title>New Medical Conditions &#8212; Including Early-Onset Alzheimer&#8217;s Disease &#8212; Now Qualify for Automatic Disability Benefits</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Mar 2010 15:00:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Evan Farr</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Social Security Disability (SSD) benefits are paid to individuals who, after having worked for many years, develop a disabling condition, prior to their normal retirement age, that is so severe that they are no longer able to work. Applicants for Social Security disability benefits often have to wait months, and sometimes years, for approval from the government, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-size: x-small; font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: x-small; font-family: Arial;">Social Security Disability (SSD) benefits are paid to individuals who, after having worked for many years, develop a disabling condition, prior to their normal retirement age, that is so severe that they are no longer able to work. </span>Applicants for Social Security disability benefits often have to wait months, and sometimes years, for approval from the government, even if they are clearly eligible for benefits. However, in certain circumstances the Social Security Administration (SSA) will fast-track a disability benefits application through a process known as Compassionate Allowances, usually because the applicant is suffering from a severe disability that may be life-threatening.  If an applicant is suffering from any of the conditions on the Compassionate Allowances list, his application is fast-tracked because it is presumed that he is a person with disabilities. This speeds up the application process and assists people suffering from serious conditions by awarding benefits quickly, when they are most needed.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: x-small; font-family: Arial;">When a person with disabilities submits an application for benefits, the SSA normally passes the application through a rigorous five-step process to ensure that the applicant truly needs assistance. The SSA first checks to see if the applicant is working, and then assesses whether the applicant is suffering from a &#8220;severe&#8221; medical condition. In the third step of the process, the SSA compares the beneficiary&#8217;s condition to a list of impairments that normally qualify a person for benefits without further assessment. When a person&#8217;s condition matches a condition on the list of impairments, the SSA presumes that the applicant has a disability and typically awards benefits without proceeding through the final two steps.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: x-small; font-family: Arial;">Unfortunately, most applicants typically have to wait for a long time before arriving at this third step in the evaluation process. Compassionate Allowances speed this process up by defining certain specific conditions that &#8220;obviously meet disability standards.&#8221; Prior to this month, the SSA included 50 medical conditions on the list of conditions that qualified for a Compassionate Allowance.</span><span style="font-size: x-small; font-family: Arial;">  As of March 1, 2010, the SSA has now added an additional 38 conditions to the Compassionate Allowances list, greatly expanding the number of people who are eligible for the Compassionate Allowances program.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: x-small; font-family: Arial;">Although most of the conditions on the revised list are rare, of tremendous importance for the aging population is the fact that the SSA has now included Early-Onset Alzheimer&#8217;s Disease, Mixed Dementia, and Primary Progressive Aphasia among the new fast-track conditions, meaning that people who are diagnosed with any of these conditions can now receive disability benefits very quickly. </span><span style="font-size: x-small; font-family: Arial;">In addition to a monthly disability payment, qualification for SSDI also allows earlier entry to Medicare health insurance benefits for those under age 65.  And for those under age 65 whose conditions are so severe that they must be placed in a nursing home, a disability determination from SSA also speeds up the Medicaid application process.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: x-small; font-family: Arial;">Please follow the links below to learn more about the Compassionate Allowance program:</span></p>
<p><a href="http://www.socialsecurity.gov/compassionateallowances/conditions.htm">Initial List of Compassionate Allowance Conditions</a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.socialsecurity.gov/compassionateallowances/newconditions.htm">38 New Compassionate Allowance Conditions </a></p>
<p><a href="https://secure.ssa.gov/apps10/poms.nsf/lnx/0423022000!opendocument">Additional information about how compassionate allowances are processed</a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.socialsecurity.gov/compassionateallowances/statements.htm">Statements from Family Members and Individuals with Early-Onset Alzheimer&#8217;s Disease</a></p>
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		<title>Upcoming Seminars for Lawyers and Clients</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Feb 2010 08:00:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Evan Farr</dc:creator>
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I&#8217;m conducting two seminars this week on the topic of Income Only Trusts. The first one is a teleseminar for attorneys around the country who are members of the professional group ElderLawAnswers.  Entitled Using Income Only Trusts for Medicaid (and General) Asset Protection, this teleseminar is Thursday, Feb. 11, at 2pm Eastern. If you&#8217;re a member of ElderLawAnswers, you can [...]]]></description>
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<p><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: medium;">I&#8217;m conducting two seminars this week on the topic of Income Only Trusts. The first one is a <a href="http://campaign.constantcontact.com/render?v=001ERobWwfqaacMzOZ1maBZE_kcfYhuCvkRlaHBco4QBNybkDeBagfl_Gb0HdsP2Cm0JKkZ-0Q_baXxNOUFuhbfy_ZO0RmMoz4YGQZ615_5DqnvuRmBjdeQnA%3D%3D">teleseminar for attorneys</a> around the country who are members of the professional group <a href="http://www.elderlawanswers.com/">ElderLawAnswers</a>.  Entitled <strong>Using Income Only Trusts for Medicaid (and General) Asset Protection</strong>, this teleseminar is Thursday, Feb. 11, at 2pm Eastern. If you&#8217;re a member of <a href="http://www.elderlawanswers.com/">ElderLawAnswers</a>, you can <a href="http://campaign.constantcontact.com/render?v=001ERobWwfqaacMzOZ1maBZE_kcfYhuCvkRlaHBco4QBNybkDeBagfl_Gb0HdsP2Cm0JKkZ-0Q_baXxNOUFuhbfy_ZO0RmMoz4YGQZ615_5DqnvuRmBjdeQnA%3D%3D">click here to register for the </a></span></span><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><a href="http://campaign.constantcontact.com/render?v=001ERobWwfqaacMzOZ1maBZE_kcfYhuCvkRlaHBco4QBNybkDeBagfl_Gb0HdsP2Cm0JKkZ-0Q_baXxNOUFuhbfy_ZO0RmMoz4YGQZ615_5DqnvuRmBjdeQnA%3D%3D">Teleseminar</a>,  </span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: medium;">The other is a </span></span><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: medium;">free seminar I&#8217;m teaching on Saturday morning for clients and potential clients, entitled <strong>How to Protect Your Assets from the Expenses of Probate and Long Term Care.  </strong>This will be held<strong> </strong>at the <span style="color: #800000;"><span style="color: #000000;">Tysons Corner Mariott, 1960-A Chain Bridge Road, McLean, VA 22012.  Please <a href="http://www.farrlawfirm.com/seminars.html">click here to register</a> for the Saturday morning seminar.</span></span></span></span> </p>
<p><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #800000;"><span style="color: #000000;">The answer to the question &#8220;How Can You Protect Your Assets from the Expenses of Probate and Long Term Care?&#8221; is, of course, to use the <strong><a href="http://www.livingtrustplus.com/">Living Trust Plus™ Asset Protection Trust</a></strong>, my highly-developed and proprietary income only trust that&#8217;s currently used by dozens of successful Estate Planning and Elder Law Attorneys across the country.</span></span></span></span> </p>
<p> <span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #800000;"><span style="color: #000000;">As stated by Elder Law Answers, &#8220;Income Only Trusts have been around since the 17th century, but have only recently gained in use and popularity, in large part due to the publications and educational efforts of our speaker and long-time ElderLawAnswers member, Certified Elder Law Attorney Evan Farr.&#8221;</span></span></span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #800000;"><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #800000;"><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #800000;"><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-size: medium;">What most Elder Law attorneys don&#8217;t understand is that income only trusts also provide clients with protection from lawsuits and other general creditors, and in the ElderLawAnswers teleseminar, I will be demystifying the income only trust, explaining how and why it works, and explaining to my fellow ElderLawAnswers Members the dos and don&#8217;ts of income only trusts so that they may properly serve clients in this exciting and growing practice area.</span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #800000;"><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #800000;"><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #800000;"><span style="color: #000000;">For middle class Americans seeking asset protection, the income only trust is the preferable form of asset protection trust because, for purposes of Medicaid eligibility, the income only trust is the only type of self-settled asset protection trust that allows a trust settlor to retain an interest in the trust while also protecting the assets from being counted by state Medicaid agencies.</span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #800000;"><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #800000;"><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #800000;"><span style="color: #000000;"> </span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #800000;"><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #800000;"><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #800000;"><span style="color: #000000;">For my clients and potential clients in the Washington, DC Metro area, by coming to my FREE class on Saturday, you&#8217;ll learn what thousands of my clients already know . . .</span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #800000;"><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #800000;"><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #800000;"><span style="color: #000000;">- That a Will puts your assets through probate, and is a very poor estate planning document.<br />
- That a regular living trust protects your assets from probate, but offers you no asset protection.<br />
- That my proprietary <strong>Living Trust Plus<sup>TM</sup></strong> Asset Protection Trust protects your assets from the expenses of probate <strong>PLUS </strong>lawsuits <strong>PLUS </strong>the catastrophic expenses of nursing home care.</span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #800000;"><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #800000;"><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #800000;"><span style="color: #000000;">If you answer YES to any of the questions below, you need to attend this class:</span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #800000;"><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #800000;"><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #800000;"><span style="color: #000000;"> </span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #800000;"><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #800000;"><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #800000;"><span style="color: #000000;">- Is someone in your household over age 65?<br />
- Does someone in your household have a serious medical condition?<br />
- Has someone in your household been turned down for long-term care insurance, or found it too expensive?<br />
- Do you want to protect your assets for your family from the devastating expenses of long-term care?<br />
- If you need long-term care in the future, do you want to receive the best possible care?</span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #800000;"><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #800000;"><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #800000;"><span style="color: #000000;">To learn all the details and find out if the <strong>Living Trust Plus™</strong> is right for you, please register now at <a href="http://evanfarr.com/seminars.html">http://VirginiaElderLaw.com/seminars.html</a> </span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #800000;"><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #800000;"><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #800000;"><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>Protect and Prosper!</strong>  <span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial;">Evan H. Farr, </span></span><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="font-family: Arial;">Certified Elder Law Attorney<br />
</span><span style="font-family: Arial;">Creator of the Living Trust Plus:  <a href="http://www.livingtrustplus.com/">http://www.LivingTrustPlus.com</a></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial;">ALI-ABA Co-Author, Planning and Defending Asset-Protection Trusts (2009): <a href="http://www.ali-aba.org/bk64">http://www.ali-aba.org/bk64</a></span><br />
</span><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: medium;">ALI-ABA Co-Author, Trusts for Senior Citizens </span>(2009): </span><a href="http://www.ali-aba.org/bk65"><span style="font-size: medium;">http://www.ali-aba.org/bk65</span></a><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;"> </span><br />
Farr Law Firm, 10640 Main St., Suite 200, Fairfax, VA  22030</span></span></span><span style="font-size: medium;"><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial;">Tel: 703-691-1888 | Fax: 703-940-9160</span><br />
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		<title>Using a Reverse Mortgage to Pay for Home Care</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 30 Jan 2010 20:12:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Evan Farr</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Many of my clients ask me how I feel about reverse mortgages, and even more so this past week because of a favorable story that appeared in last week's Washington Post entitled "Reverse Mortgages are Not the Next Subprime."  This excellent article was written by the "Mortgage Professor," a Professor of Finance Emeritus at the Wharton School of the University of Pennsylvania (incdientally, my Alma Mater), and clears up much of the confusion and myths and fears surrounding the reverse mortgage.  I encourage all of you to read it.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Many of my clients ask me how I feel about reverse mortgages, and even more so this past week because of a favorable story that appeared in last week&#8217;s Washington Post entitled &#8220;<a href="http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2010/01/21/AR2010012105405.html">Reverse Mortgages are Not the Next Subprime</a>.&#8221;  This excellent article was written by the &#8221;<a href="http://www.mtgprofessor.com/home.aspx">Mortgage Professor</a>,&#8221; a Professor of Finance Emeritus at the Wharton School of the University of Pennsylvania (incidentally, my Alma Mater), and clears up much of the confusion and myths and fears surrounding the reverse mortgage.  I encourage all of you to read it.  Another good source of information about reverse mortgages is the <a href="http://www.ftc.gov/bcp/edu/pubs/consumer/homes/rea13.shtm">Federal Trade Commission Fact Sheet</a>. </p>
<p>As a Certified Elder Law attorney, one of my primary goals is to help preserve the dignity and enhance the lives of my elderly clients.  For many of my clients, remaining in their homes as long as possible is one of their highest priorities.  I have been a long-time fan of reverse mortgages because they help my clients do exactly that &#8212; remain in their homes as long as possible.  </p>
<p>Why? Because in order to remain in your home as long as possible, you will most likely at some point need some home care.  &#8220;Home Care&#8221; can be health care and/or supportive care provided formally in your home by health care professionals (typically referred to as home health aides) or by paid or unpaid family members or friends (typically referred to as caregivers).  Often, the term &#8220;home care&#8221; is used to mean non-medical care, or custodial care, which may be provided by persons who are not nurses, doctors, or other licensed medical personnel.  The term &#8220;home health care&#8221; typically refers to care that is provided by a licensed health care professional &#8212; most often a Certified Nurse Assistant (CNA).  However, the terms are often used interchangeably, and for simplicity in this article I will use the term &#8220;home care&#8221; to refer to both types of care.</p>
<p>The goal of home care is typically to to allow you to remain at home and age in place, rather than being forced to move to an assisted living facility or nursing home.  Home Care providers render services in your own home. These services typically include a combination of health care services and life assistance services.</p>
<p>Health care services may include services such as wound care, administration of medication, physical therapy, speech therapy, and occupational therapy.  Life assistance services typically include help with daily tasks such as meal preparation, medication reminders, laundry, light housekeeping, errands, shopping, transportation, companionship, and help with the activities of daily living (ADLs), which typically refers to six activities (bathing, dressing, transferring, using the toilet, eating, and walking). </p>
<p>Although some home care is provided by family members for free, most family caregivers need to be paid, and these payment arrangements should always be made pursuant to a written caregiver contract (prepared by an Elder Law Attorney) between the caregiver and the care recipient.  Because home care is quite expensive, having the proceeds from a reverse mortgage is often one of the  only ways that elders can afford to pay for appropriate home care. According to <a href="http://www.metlife.com/assets/cao/mmi/publications/studies/mmi-market-survey-nursing-home-assisted-living.pdf">The 2009 MetLife Market Survey of Nursing Home, Assisted Living, Adult Day Services, and Home Care Costs</a>, the 2009 national average hourly rate for home health aides increased by 5.0% from $20 in 2008 to $21 in 2009. The national average hourly rate for homemaker/companions increased by 5.6% from $18 in 2008 to $19 in 2009. </p>
<p>Most of my clients, when they start out needing home care, will typically start with receiving 4 hours of care 3 days a week, which costs about $1,000 per month and is easily affordable for many people.  But over time, most of my clients progress to the point of needing upwards of 12 hours per day of home care, costing over $7,000 per month, and very few people can afford to pay for this type of care without eventually tapping into their home equity via a reverse mortgage.</p>
<p>The most common type of reverse mortgage is the Home Equity Conversion Mortgage (HECM), which completely protects your ability to remain in your home. So long as you pay your property taxes and homeowners insurance, and maintain your property, you can remain in your home forever. If the reverse mortgage lender fails, any unmet payment obligation to the borrower will be assumed by FHA. </p>
<p>According to the Mortgage Professor&#8217;s article mentioned in my first paragraph, in 2009 about 130,000 HECMs were written, and feedback from borrowers has been mostly positive. In a <a href="http://assets.aarp.org/rgcenter/consume/inb999_revmortgage.pdf">2006 survey</a> of borrowers by AARP, 93% said that their reverse mortgage had a mostly positive effect on their lives.</p>
<p>For many of my clients, a reverse mortgage is the best way, and often the only way, for them to be able to afford to remain at home, despite the fact that reverse mortgages are expensive to obtain.  However, reverse mortgages are not for everyone, as there are other programs that may be able to help you remain in your home.  For instance, many of my clients are eligible for the <a href="http://www.virginiaelderlaw.com/Veterans-Aid.htm">Veterans Aid and Attendance</a> benefit or for home-based <a href="http://www.virginiaelderlaw.com/asset_protection_planning.html">Medicaid</a>, or can be made eligible for these benefits through our process of <a href="http://www.virginiaelderlaw.com/asset_protection_planning.html">Asset Protection</a>. </p>
<p>Whether you own your home outright or in a <a href="http://www.virginiaelderlaw.com/revocable.html">Revocable Living Trust</a> or in my proprietary  <a href="http://www.virginiaelderlaw.com/Living-Trust-Plus.htm">Living Trust Plus<sup>TM</sup></a> Asset Protection Trust, if you think a reverse mortgage might be the solution you need, please contact me for a free consultation so I can evaluate your specific situation and advise you as to whether a reverse mortgage is your best option for allowing you to live comfortably in your home.</p>
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		<title>Important Elder Law and Estate Planning Numbers for 2010</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Jan 2010 00:02:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Evan Farr</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Under current law, there will be no cost-of-living adjustment (COLA) in Social Security in 2010 — the first time that has happened since automatic cost-of-living adjustments began in 1975. Several bills before Congress would grant a special increase in Social Security payments for 2010.
In addition, when no Social Security COLA is provided, Medicare Part B [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-family: arial,helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">Under current law, there will be no cost-of-living adjustment (COLA) in Social Security in 2010 — the first time that has happened since automatic cost-of-living adjustments began in 1975. Several bills before Congress would grant a special increase in Social Security payments for 2010.</span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: arial,helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">In addition, when no Social Security COLA is provided, Medicare Part B premiums — which are deducted from Social Security checks — are <em>frozen</em> for most beneficiaries so that the Social Security checks do not drop (</span></span><a href="http://www.cbpp.org/cms/index.cfm?fa=view&amp;id=2951"><span style="font-family: arial,helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">click here for more information</span></span></a><span style="font-family: arial,helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">).</span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: arial,helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">Below are figures for 2010 that are frequently used in the elder law practice, including the new Medicaid spousal impoverishment figures, the long-term care insurance deductibility limits, and Medicare premiums and co-pays, and Social Security Figures:  </span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: small; font-family: Arial;"><strong>Medicaid Figures for 2010</strong> </span></p>
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<td><span style="font-size: small;">Divestment Penalty Divisor</span></td>
<td><span style="font-size: small;">$ 6,654.00 &#8211; Northern Virginia (Arlington, Fairfax, Loudoun and Prince William Counties and the Cities of Alexandria, Fairfax, Falls Church, Manassas and Manassas Park.)<br />
$ 4,954.00 &#8211; All Other</span></td>
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<tr>
<td><span style="font-size: small;">Individual Resource Allowance</span></td>
<td><span style="font-size: small;">$ 2,000.00</span></td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td><span style="font-size: small;">Monthly Personal Needs Allowance</span></td>
<td><span style="font-size: small;">$ 40.00</span></td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td><span style="font-size: small;">Minimum Community Spouse Resource Allowance</span></td>
<td><span style="font-size: small;">$ 21,912.00</span></td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td><span style="font-size: small;">Maximum Community Spouse Resource Allowance</span></td>
<td><span style="font-size: small;">$ 109,560.00</span></td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td><span style="font-size: small;">Minimum Monthly Maintenance Needs Allowance</span></td>
<td><span style="font-size: small;">$ 1,821.25</span></td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td><span style="font-size: small;">Maximum Monthly Maintenance Needs Allowance</span></td>
<td><span style="font-size: small;">$ 2,739.00</span></td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td><span style="font-size: small;">Shelter Standard</span></td>
<td><span style="font-size: small;">$ 546.38</span></td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td><span style="font-size: small;">Standard Utility Allowance</span></td>
<td><span style="font-size: small;">$ 141</span></td>
</tr>
</tbody>
</table>
<div><span style="font-size: small; font-family: Arial;"><br />
<strong>Estate Tax Exclusion / Exemption Equivalent Amount:  </strong></span></div>
<p><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: small;">Unlimited Exemption (Estate Tax Temporarily Repealed for 2010).  Exemption currently set to revert to $1 million in 2011.</span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: small;"> <span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><strong>Annual Gift Tax Exclusion: $13,000</strong></span></span>  </span></p>
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<td width="244" valign="top"><span style="font-size: x-small; font-family: Arial;"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="font-size: small;">Attained age before the close of the taxable year</span></span></span></td>
<td width="199" valign="top"><span style="font-size: x-small; font-family: Arial;"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="font-size: small;">Maximum deduction</span></span></span></td>
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<tr>
<td width="244" valign="top"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: small;">40 or less</span></span></td>
<td width="199" valign="top"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: small;">$330</span></span></td>
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<tr>
<td width="244" valign="top"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: small;">More than 40 but not more than 50</span></span></td>
<td width="199" valign="top"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: small;">$620</span></span></td>
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<td width="244" valign="top"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: small;">More than 50 but not more than 60</span></span></td>
<td width="199" valign="top"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: small;">$1,230</span></span></td>
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<tr>
<td width="244" valign="top"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: small;">More than 60 but not more than 70</span></span></td>
<td width="199" valign="top"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: small;">$3,290</span></span></td>
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<td width="244" valign="top"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: small;">More than 70</span></span></td>
<td width="199" valign="top"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: small;">$4,110</span></span></td>
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<td width="160" valign="bottom"><span style="font-size: small;">Beneficiaries who file an individual tax return with income:</span></td>
<td width="160" valign="bottom"><span style="font-size: small;">Beneficiaries who file a joint tax return with income:</span></td>
<td width="160" valign="bottom"><span style="font-size: small;">Income-related monthly adjustment amount</span></td>
<td width="160" valign="bottom"><span style="font-size: small;">Total monthly premium amount</span></td>
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<tr>
<td width="160" valign="bottom"><span style="font-size: small;">Less than  or equal to $85,000</span></td>
<td width="160" valign="bottom"><span style="font-size: small;">Less than or equal to $170,000</span></td>
<td width="160" valign="bottom"><span style="font-size: small;">$0.00</span></td>
<td width="160" valign="bottom"><span style="font-size: small;">$110.50</span></td>
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<tr>
<td width="160" valign="bottom"><span style="font-size: small;">Greater than $85,000 and less than or equal to $107,000</span></td>
<td width="160" valign="bottom"><span style="font-size: small;">Greater than $170,000 and less than or equal to $214,000</span></td>
<td width="160" valign="bottom"><span style="font-size: small;">$44.20</span></td>
<td width="160" valign="bottom"><span style="font-size: small;">$154.70</span></td>
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<tr>
<td width="160" valign="bottom"><span style="font-size: small;">Greater than $107,000 and less than or equal to $160,000</span></td>
<td width="160" valign="bottom"><span style="font-size: small;">Greater than $214,000 and less than or equal to $320,000</span></td>
<td width="160" valign="bottom"><span style="font-size: small;">$110.50</span></td>
<td width="160" valign="bottom"><span style="font-size: small;">$221.00</span></td>
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<tr>
<td width="160" valign="bottom"><span style="font-size: small;">Greater than $160,000 and less than or equal to $214,000</span></td>
<td width="160" valign="bottom"><span style="font-size: small;">Greater than $320,000 and less than or equal to $428,000</span></td>
<td width="160" valign="bottom"><span style="font-size: small;">$176.80</span></td>
<td width="160" valign="bottom"><span style="font-size: small;">$287.30</span></td>
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<tr>
<td width="160" valign="bottom"><span style="font-size: small;">Greater than $214,000</span></td>
<td width="160" valign="bottom"><span style="font-size: small;">Greater than $428,000</span></td>
<td width="160" valign="bottom"><span style="font-size: small;">$243.10</span></td>
<td width="160" valign="bottom"><span style="font-size: small;">$353.60</span></td>
</tr>
</tbody>
</table>
<div><span style="font-size: x-small; font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: x-small; font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: small;"> </span></span></span></span></div>
<p><span style="font-size: x-small; font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: x-small; font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: small; font-family: Arial;"><strong>Social Security Figures for 2010</strong></span></span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: x-small; font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: x-small; font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: small; font-family: Arial;">         <span style="font-size: x-small;">(</span><a href="http://www.ssaonline.us/pressoffice/pr/2010cola-pr.htm"><span style="font-size: x-small;">Click here for SSA Press Release</span></a><span style="font-size: x-small;">)<br />
      <span style="font-size: small;">   </span><span style="font-size: x-small;">(</span><span style="font-size: x-small;"><a href="http://www.ssaonline.us/pressoffice/factsheets/colafacts2010.htm">Click here for SSA Fact</a></span><span style="font-size: x-small;"><a href="javascript:void(0);/*1262733450641*/"> Sheet</a>)</span></span></span></span></span> </p>
<ul>
<li>Cost of Living Increase: 0 percent </li>
<li>Maximum Taxable Earnings: $106,800 <span style="font-size: x-small; font-family: Arial;">  </span></li>
</ul>
<p style="MARGIN-RIGHT: 0px" dir="ltr"><span style="font-size: x-small; font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: x-small; font-family: Arial;"><strong>SSI Federal Payment Standard:</strong> </span><span style="font-size: x-small; font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: x-small; font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: x-small; font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: x-small; font-family: Arial;"> </span></span></span></span></span></p>
<ul>
<li>
<div style="MARGIN-RIGHT: 0px"><span style="font-size: x-small; font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: x-small; font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: x-small; font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: x-small; font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: x-small; font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: x-small; font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: x-small; font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: x-small; font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: x-small; font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: x-small; font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: x-small; font-family: Arial;">Individual: $674/mo.</span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></div>
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<div style="MARGIN-RIGHT: 0px"><span style="font-size: x-small; font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: x-small; font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: x-small; font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: x-small; font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: x-small; font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: x-small; font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: x-small; font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: x-small; font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: x-small; font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: x-small; font-family: Arial;"></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span><span style="font-size: x-small; font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: x-small; font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: x-small; font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: x-small; font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: x-small; font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: x-small; font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: x-small; font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: x-small; font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: x-small; font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: x-small; font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: x-small; font-family: Arial;">Couple: $1,011/mo. </span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></div>
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		<title>Who Was Supposed To Be Watching Grandma?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Dec 2009 10:00:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Evan Farr</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[There is a popular tune played this time of year called “Grandma Got Run Over by A Reindeer” which relates that Grandma &#8212; after drinking too much eggnog &#8212; went out into the winter cold to get her medication and was run over by a reindeer. The question is . . .  “Who was supposed [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There is a popular tune played this time of year called “Grandma Got Run Over by A Reindeer” which relates that Grandma &#8212; after drinking too much eggnog &#8212; went out into the winter cold to get her medication and was run over by a reindeer. The question is . . .  “Who was supposed to be watching Grandma?”</p>
<p class="fontsize">Though this little tune is just for fun, it may very well raise alarms to many caregivers of the elderly. Caregivers know that even at a holiday party they cannot let down their diligent watch over their elderly loved one. As far-fetched as it may sound, with all the people and noise, an elderly family member with dementia or Alzheimer’s may be enjoying the family gathering and then suddenly become confused and walk to the door and leave.</p>
<p class="fontsize">For family caregivers the added stress of the holidays with decorating, shopping, parties and keeping up with all the family traditions is an overwhelming quest. Feelings of isolation, depression and sadness come with this added stress. There are millions of Americans who are caring for elderly frail loved ones and most of these caregivers will go through some of these emotions, especially this time of year.</p>
<p class="fontsize">There are some things you can do as a caregiver to help you and those you care for enjoy the holiday season.</p>
<p class="fontsize"><strong>First take care of yourself</strong>. Try to eat right, get plenty of sleep and exercise. This will help reduce stress and strengthen your ability to cope with caregiving responsibilities.</p>
<p class="fontsize"><strong>Prioritize your holiday traditions</strong>. Perhaps instead of cooking a large family dinner, have everyone bring his or her favorite dish. Use paper plates. Forfeit the traditional outside light decorating for a lighted wreath on the front door. Choose one or two parties or concerts to attend instead of trying to do it all.</p>
<p class="fontsize"><strong>Arrange for help</strong>. Call on other family members to help with the caregiving while you do your shopping or go out for the evening. If family is not available, ask your church group or a neighbor if they would donate a few hours.</p>
<p class="fontsize"><strong>Use community services</strong>. Many senior centers provide meals for the elderly and supervised activities, onsite, at no charge or a minimal charge. For locating senior services in your state, call your state Area Agency on Aging or check the national locator website at <a href="http://www.n4a.org/">http://www.n4a.org/</a></p>
<p class="fontsize"><strong>Use adult day care services</strong>. Some assisted living facilities provide day activities and meals for seniors on a day by day basis. Other organizations called &#8220;adult day service providers&#8221; specialize exclusively in this sort of care support at a reasonable cost. These support services provide respite for caregivers from their caregiving responsibilities as well as social interaction for their elderly family members. There is a cost for adult day services, but the benefit for all is worth it.</p>
<p class="fontsize"><strong>Technology to the rescue</strong>. Here is a solution that would have kept “Grandma” from going out in the winter cold and getting run over by a reindeer. Companies that have created monitoring systems, security alarms and other safety equipment are “tweaking” them to adapt to the needs of seniors and their care givers.</p>
<p class="fontsize">Here are a few examples:</p>
<ul>
<li>Ankle or wrist bands that monitor location and alert the provider when a person has gone beyond the designated perimeter, such as out the front door of the house.</li>
<li>Motion detectors. Set throughout the home, motion detectors allow someone outside the home to follow a senior as he or she moves through the house.</li>
<li>Smart medication dispensers. Live monitoring and dispensing of pills.</li>
<li>Emergency response alert. At a touch of a button on a desktop monitor, bracelet or necklace, emergency help is summoned.</li>
</ul>
<p class="fontsize">Whether providing care in your home or helping senior family members in their own homes, your use of monitoring and “tech” help aids can provide extra safety for your loved ones, and peace of mind for you.</p>
<p class="fontsize"><strong>You are not alone</strong>. Join a caregiving help group. Your local senior center may have one or go on the internet to find one. Hearing about other caregivers&#8217; problems and solutions and being able to share your own and ask questions is a great way to relieve stress and gain a new perspective. Check out websites like the National Family Caregivers Association at <a href="http://www.nfcacares.org/">http://www.nfcacares.org/</a></p>
<p class="fontsize"><strong>Work with a Senior Care Professional.</strong> Recognize that you are doing the very best you know how. You are not a geriatric health care practitioner, geriatric care manager, home care nurse or aide, hospice provider or family mediation counselor, nor do you have the years of training and experience these professionals have, but you can definitely use their experience. In fact, using a senior care specialist will make caregiving easier for you and more beneficial for your elderly family member.</p>
<p class="fontsize">You can find a wide variety of care professionals in your area on the National Care Planning Council website at <a href="http://www.longtermcarelink.net/">www.longtermcarelink.net</a> and on our website at <a href="http://www.virginiaelderlaw.com/TrustedReferrals.htm">http://www.virginiaelderlaw.com/TrustedReferrals.htm</a>.</p>
<p>One more thing to remember. As a family caregiver, the greatest gift you are giving this holiday season is “Love.”</p>
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		<title>Helping Your Older Parents Stay Happy and Healthy</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Dec 2009 16:55:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Evan Farr</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[by Robert Stall MD, Geriatrician
If you&#8217;re fortunate enough to have one or both parents still living, you may have noticed a role reversal taking place in your relationship. Remember the days when Mom shuttled you to the doctor whenever you were sick? Now, it may be you who&#8217;s driving her to her medical appointments. Perhaps you&#8217;ve [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-size: x-small; font-family: Arial;">by Robert Stall MD, Geriatrician</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: arial,helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">If you&#8217;re fortunate enough to have one or both parents still living, you may have noticed a role reversal taking place in your relationship. Remember the days when Mom shuttled you to the doctor whenever you were sick? Now, it may be you who&#8217;s driving her to her medical appointments. Perhaps you&#8217;ve become even more involved in managing her healthcare needs – serving as her healthcare proxy, moving her into your home to care for her, or even having to select a nursing home for her to live in.</span></span></span></p>
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<p><span style="font-family: arial,helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">Whatever the case, it&#8217;s natural to feel challenged – and, yes, intimidated – in the role you&#8217;ve undertaken. But if you stay positive and proactive, you&#8217;ll be in a great position to advocate for your parents&#8217; optimal care. And, really, what better way is there to say &#8220;Thank You&#8221; for all they&#8217;ve done for you over the years?</span></span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: arial,helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">The following six recommendations will help you understand what may be happening to your parents as they age – and what you can do to help.</span></span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: arial,helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">1. Stay vigilant to sudden changes.</span></span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: arial,helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">Typically, sudden changes arise from sudden problems. Your elderly father who becomes confused one week but was alert and oriented the week before, or becomes unsteady walking and starts falling, is likely experiencing an acute problem – an infection, medication side effect, or perhaps, a heart attack or stroke.</span></span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: arial,helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">If you pay attention to your parent&#8217;s baseline health and behavior, you&#8217;ll be alert to sudden, and subtle, fluctuations. Being attuned to what&#8217;s &#8220;normal&#8221; for your parent is critical in advocating for his care. By informing his physician of these changes, you help ensure that he receives a proper diagnosis and timely treatment – especially important in acute conditions.</span></span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: arial,helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">2. Investigate the source of gradual decline.</span></span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: arial,helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">Several years ago, I met an elderly woman living in a nursing home. Her family, assuming she had dementia, had moved her there after she had gradually stopped speaking.</span></span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: arial,helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">After performing a brief procedure on her, I asked how she was doing. &#8220;I&#8217;m OK,&#8221; she replied.</span></span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: arial,helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">A miracle? Not exactly. I&#8217;d removed bullet-sized pieces of wax from her ears. She&#8217;d stopped speaking because her ears were too plugged to hear.</span></span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: arial,helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">A host of conditions can cause gradual decline. Before jumping to the conclusion – as many people do – that Alzheimer&#8217;s disease is the culprit, recognize that your parent may be experiencing an altogether different problem: a vitamin B12 deficiency, an underactive thyroid, Parkinson&#8217;s disease or depression, to name a few.</span></span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: arial,helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">When discussing your parent&#8217;s decline with her physician, make sure the two of you consider all the possibilities. To prepare for the appointment, make notes detailing how her decline has manifested itself – loss of appetite, a failing short-term memory and so forth – and how long you&#8217;ve noticed these changes. That way, you won&#8217;t leave anything out. To help you, I&#8217;ve created a free checklist that either you or your parent can complete at seniorselfassessment.com – make sure you print or email the &#8220;Test Result Details&#8221; at the bottom of the page to analyze your responses and give you advice based on your answers.</span></span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: arial,helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">3. Know thy parent&#8217;s medicine cabinet.</span></span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: arial,helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">Familiarize yourself with the medications your parent takes: what each one is for and how often he takes them. Make sure you notify each doctor your parent visits of all the medicine he takes, including over-the-counter products. Ask what side effects you might observe from each medication and whether it&#8217;s potentially dangerous if your parent takes them together. You also want to tell the doctor whether your parent drinks alcohol or caffeinated drinks and whether he smokes, as these substances can affect some medications&#8217; efficacy and safety. To recognize which medications might cause the symptoms your parent experiences, check out drugscanmakeyousick.com .</span></span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: arial,helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">4. Discourage ageist attitudes.</span></span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: arial,helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">Simply put, ageism is prejudice against the elderly. It exists in many forms but can be particularly damaging to an older person&#8217;s self-esteem when it assumes that all of her woes are age-related. Here are a couple of ways of expressing ageism to an elderly parent:</span></span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: arial,helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">&#8220;What do you expect at your age?&#8221;</span></span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: arial,helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">&#8220;You&#8217;re not getting any younger.&#8221;</span></span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: arial,helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">If you&#8217;re ever tempted to utter something similar, remind yourself that by chalking up everything that ails her to her age, you sell your parent short. If she&#8217;s depressed, it may have nothing to do with the fact that she&#8217;s 80 and everything to do with a biological predisposition to depression. And remember that right-knee pain in a 90 year-old can&#8217;t be just from age if there&#8217;s no problem with her left knee. (More about Dr. Stall and a more in-depth article on the attitude of society towards medical care for the elderly can be found at http://www.longtermcarelink.net/eldercare/medical_care_issues.htm )</span></span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: arial,helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">5. Address not just symptoms—but emotions, too.</span></span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: arial,helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">There is disease and then there is &#8220;dis-ease&#8221; – that is, a lack of ease, security or well-being. &#8220;Dis-ease&#8221; can manifest itself as myriad emotions in an elderly person: fear, grief, boredom, embarrassment and sadness among them. The fact is, these emotions can be every bit as debilitating as disease.</span></span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: arial,helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">Take the case of a parent who&#8217;s incontinent. Too embarrassed to socialize, she cuts herself off from friends. Without companionship, she becomes lonely. Instead of allowing her to become a hermit, discuss with her doctor how to address the incontinence. Together, you can consider different solutions that will ease her embarrassment and reinvigorate her social life.</span></span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: arial,helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">6. Strive to maximize your parent&#8217;s quality of life.</span></span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: arial,helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">No matter our age, we all want to enjoy life to the fullest and have the capability to do the things we want to. Improving the enjoyment of life and a patient&#8217;s functional ability are the cardinal goals of geriatric care. But you don&#8217;t need a medical diploma on your wall to help your parent achieve either of those goals.</span></span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: arial,helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">Being there to solve a problem or provide company are tremendously worthwhile services you can provide – no expertise required. Remember, as your parent gets older, his quality of life becomes more important to him than how much longer he lives. And he doesn&#8217;t necessarily need medications or surgery to ensure that he&#8217;s living the latter part of his life to the fullest.</span></span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: arial,helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">If he enjoys books but has difficulty reading regular-sized type, check out sight-saving titles at the library. If he&#8217;s grieving the loss of his best buddy, introduce him to new acquaintances at the senior center. If he&#8217;s living in a nursing home, bring your kids there to share a meal with him.</span></span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: arial,helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">Sometimes, it&#8217;s the small gestures that have the most profound impact. As the child of an elderly parent, you are uniquely positioned to deliver these life-changing gifts.</span></span></span></p>
<h5 style="text-align: right;"><span style="font-family: arial,helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="color: #008000;">Dr. Robert Stall is a geriatrician practicing in Tonawanda, New York and a clinical associate professor at the University of Buffalo&#8217;s School of Medicine and Biomedical Sciences.  To learn more about senior care issues, visit his website at stallgeriatrics.com.</span></span></span></h5>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sorry for the last minute notice, but I just found out that my church, Fairfax United Methodist Church (10300 Stratford Avenue, Fairfax, VA  22030), has space left for a course I&#8217;m teaching tomorrow evening entitled What Does the Bible Teach us About Estate Planning?This is a brand-new two part course seminar that I&#8217;ve just put together as part of my [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sorry for the last minute notice, but I just found out that my church, Fairfax United Methodist Church (10300 Stratford Avenue, Fairfax, VA  22030), has space left for a course I&#8217;m teaching tomorrow evening entitled <a title="http://blog.virginiaelderlaw.com/2009/09/keeping-mom-and-dad-safe-at-home/ Permanent Link to Keeping Mom and Dad Safe at Home" rel="bookmark" href="http://blog.virginiaelderlaw.com/2009/09/keeping-mom-and-dad-safe-at-home/"><strong><span style="color: #770220;">What Does the Bible Teach us About Estate Planning</span></strong></a><span style="color: #800000;">?</span><span style="color: #000000;">This is a brand-new two part course seminar that I&#8217;ve just put together as part of my church&#8217;s <strong>Paths of Faith</strong> educational outreach program.  </span></p>
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<p> <span style="color: #000000;">Did you know there are hundreds of mentions of the word &#8220;inheritance&#8221; in the Bible, but there is very little information available to families seeking to plan and protect their estates.  Every person&#8217;s estate is different, and each estate plan must be designed to meet the needs of that family&#8217;s situation, but we should look not just to the law, but also to the Bible for direction in planning our estates and protecting our wealth (and not just our material wealth).</span></p>
<p>Part 1 of this course (tomorrow evening, October 6, from 7 to 8:30) will examine and summarize the Biblical perspectives on estate planning, elder law, and asset protection and explain what the Bible teaches us about these complex and ever-changing areas of the law. </p>
<p>Part 2 of this course (next Tuesday evening, October 13, from 7 to 8:30) will examine how families, through the use of traditional and not-so-traditional estate planning tools, can legally and morally take the steps they need to plan and protect themselves, their families, and their estates, while glorifying God in the process. </p></div>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">I&#8217;d love for you to attend if you&#8217;re able to make it, and bring your friends and family! Tuition for both sessions is $25.  To register, please call the church at 703-591-3120 ext. 105.  I hope to see you there!</span></p>
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